I cant believe I haven’t updated my blog at all this
YEAR! Shocking! I’ve just been so busy, work seems to never
stop and I never seem to get any time to myself to chill. I really must learn to put holidays in. Well, I had a week away in London in March,
which I desperately needed, but apart from that it’s been non stop.
So, where to start.
Guess I could start with right now and then work my way backwards? Not the usual way to go about things, but I
think that by thinking about how I’m feeling now, than going back over to work
out why I’m feeling like this, seems like a good idea?
OK, so right now, I am feeling really stressed, really
unsettled, and doubting everything I am doing.
Not the most positive start to my blog I guess. I’ve always struggled with self confidence, I
still feel now that I don’t know anywhere near enough about anything, and
sometimes the ward I’m on doesn’t help the situation. Don’t get me wrong, I love the people I work
with, so so much, I really do. But
sometimes the management of it all, puts people under so much stress, its just
too much. We’ve had some new starters,
one of which has left already. But as
well as that, having more new starters means if I was working with them on a
nightshift, I’d be in charge, which is something I really don’t feel anywhere
near ready enough for, but being so short staffed and having bank nurses too,
we don’t really get the choice. We’re
also getting loads of patients which are not our speciality which means that I
feel as though I’m not doing my best. I’ve
lost count of the number of times I’ve had to pull over on the drive home from
work to cry, cos I feel like I’ve not done a good enough job.
When I got this job I was completely over the moon, being
given the chance to do something which I know I love. It just feels lately that I’m getting more
and more worked up, it’s a constant pressure, and whilst I try my best, I feel
like I’m not making any difference. If
our ward gets shut due to lack of patients, we can get sent anywhere at all, at
the last minute, and it really panics me.
I hate now knowing how to do things, so send me to a cardiac ward, or orthopaedic
ward, so something completely different, I feel it’s dangerous and shouldn’t happen. The patient needs the best care, and having
me as a ‘nurse’ when I know nothing about that specific speciality is
wrong. It’s got to the point now where I
am seriously thinking of leaving nursing.
Even though that’s the last thing I want to do, I feel like the way the
ward is run, understaffed and overworked, something majorly bad has to happen
before the big bosses notice we’re struggling, and makes the changes we so
desperately need.
I wish it could be a happier blog but, this is really the
most positive I could make this post, I’ve had a day off and put things into perspective,
which has helped me paint things in the most positive way that I can. I love my ward and the people I work with,
but sometimes it’s all way too much and I feel like I’m suffocating. Sometimes my old job in a care home or an
office job seems so much more appealing.
Is it really worth getting palpitations, being unable to sleep or eat, and
barely managing to function when I’m at work? I’m not too sure to be
honest. I’d love to say I will be a
nurse for life but sometimes I doubt it.
But then again I have that ridiculous stubborn streak of not being able
to give in, which is the only thing that’s (just about!) getting me through
this horrible stressy time. Thank
goodness for stubbornness, I’d like to think it’s character building, but maybe
it’s more character destroying – only time will tell! Next blog I’ll try really hard to write by
the end of the year!